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Published by admin on July 8th, 2008 | Tagged Homaira Rahman, Other Stuff
The horrific story of Homaira Rahman’s murder has been unfolding and waves of cries are echoing across the globe. The young girl who has volunteered countless hours for various Afghan missions has succumbed to an end that no one wishes for their loved ones or even enemies. A recent report from the coroner’s office (based on post mordem reports) indicates that the upper body trauma infliced on Homaira Rahman, did not lead to her immediate death. Infact even an hour before her body was recovered, she was still alive. Battling for life, clinging for a bit more…struggling and fighting to stay alive, and be with her family.
Ehsan Amin is now the most mentioned named in Afghan circle. His pictures have yet to surface, but we can imagine that his family are in as much stress as that of Homaira Jan’s. What could drive a man to such levels of insanity ..to inflict so much pain and stress.
Following are some more pictures posted exclusively on AfghanBuzz.com to celebrate the joyous and remarkable life of Homaira Rahman.






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July 9th, 2008 at 6:50 pm
I miss Homy
July 9th, 2008 at 9:58 pm
While i appreciate your touching words, please be aware that the results of the autopsy have yet to be released. out of respect for her family and friends - those who knew her - please talk about how she was a wonderful afghan girl, not about what time she passed…that information is yet to be published and her family does not wish to hear awful things like that.
respectfully,
sara
July 10th, 2008 at 9:37 am
i didn’t know this girl but i get chills down my spine thinking abuot what she went through. this is crazy.. afghan men killing afghan women.. over what??! i’m so sadden over this.. may allah rest your soul in eternal peace
July 10th, 2008 at 11:17 am
***Sara F. The information about her being alive prior to her body being recovered was/is in the Fox news.***
I don’t know if that is a fact but it is a story that was initially published by a respected news agency aka FOX and they cited post-morderm reports. Is it official, is it publically announced by official channels… i guess i dont know that either.
July 12th, 2008 at 10:38 am
FOX is not a respected news agency
July 12th, 2008 at 10:46 am
I find it funny and somewhat offensive that all the photos of Homaira online are photos of her with other girls (or guys) all dolled up, striving to look “hot” (as defined by western norms) in their clubbin’ getup. What about family photos? Or photos of her performing her mission work? How can you celebrate Homaira’s “joyous and remarkable life” with these limited photos? And think about her poor family seeing such photos online. May God forgive her and all of us and give her a place in heaven, inshaallah. And may He grant her family paience. And may we all (especially young Afghans) strive to preserve our beautiful culture and religion.
July 13th, 2008 at 8:52 pm
AA, just screw off.
Alright, not everything can be “perfect.”
If only it was.
Just stick with what we got and appreciate it…Jeez.
May allah bless her soul.
July 13th, 2008 at 10:07 pm
you act like shes committing a crime in these photos.
She’s celebrating her life with her friends.
Nothing to be ashamed of you damn extremist.
July 14th, 2008 at 2:06 am
what a loser !! talking smack tobah I’m sure her family is praying that this happens to you or your sisters/mom for all of you talking shit hope u all go to hell soon everyone thats talking smack about this poor girl.
July 14th, 2008 at 2:08 am
thats for AA
July 14th, 2008 at 9:03 am
IS THIS TRUE??
Nazia’s friend Says:
July 12th, 2008 at 10:29 pm
This Message is for Samira Atash…….
I am reading this Blog and it is very sad to hear your friend is dead….. No one should die for any cause. But to put some light on this issue, Homaira was dating this guy for 5 years as we all know, confirmed by many afghans,……her friend Tabasum (Kala Kata uzback) who date out of race, (Tuff lanat-e khuda to her and she calls herself afghan girl) she is a disgrace to afghan community and many other afghan girls who secretly do something then when it comes to time, they call themselves “Good Girl”
Homaira used him and cheated on him……. two other guys by the name Omar from GWU and Ali from California confirmed that she was dating them too at the time she dated Ehsan….Police tracked the phone calls from her cell phone. What do you call that Samira, isn’t that cheating……I guess not in your dictionary cuz you used to do it yourself while married to Ali (Your Ex)……..it is true that your husband found you having sex with Spanish guy at your house inside your bed. That is why you got divorced and he kicked your ass out of the house.
Samira who talk about Islam, have you ever looked at your own credential……. who was divorced by Ali, why he divorced you…… you were cheating behind his back………then I remember in GMU…..you were dating an Arab guy and you were caught by a Police at GMU giving head to Arab guy in parking lot and it was published on Broadside GMU 1996 June edition….you can look at the achieve.. Samira do Islam say that to give blow job in the parking lot?
Samira Jan, from what I heard and seen…….you were one of the afghan whore at the time and all afghan girls and guys used to call you Afghan whore of Fairfax.
Samira, you got some media’s attention because you happened to start a business in the fashion industry and people think that you are a role model, (Role Model my ass if they know your past and what you did to your ex-husband).
Cheating behind his back and giving blow drop to guys…….he divorced your ass and dump you like a piece of shit.
You mentioned about “what prophet Mohammad preached”…..do you have any idea what you are talking about….do you think Prophet said cheat behind your husband and suck guy’s dick inside the university.
Do you know about your father credential who stole millions of dollar from Afghan Arianna Airline and come to US….? Do People know your father is sought by Interpol Police, and since your father is American Citizen, America do not deport their citizen to other countries to get punished. Your business boomed because the stolen money by your father now is being channeled through your business or your sister and people think uh yah these girls are successful…. Do not forget People know you very well, and I think you should keep quite and don’t curse people out in this site…..
You talked about Islam and then cursed at Nazia “bro gobokho” that really show what kind of trashy family you come from.
After you got hooked up with Nissry family, you think people don’t know about your past and respect you……Respect for you my ass……. you are the same whore and god know how many guys you fuck behind your new husband.
Recommendation for your husband> maybe he should track your cell phone calls.
July 14th, 2008 at 9:04 am
HMM — YOU GIRLS ARE LOOKING TO FIND SHOYEE??? why advertise yourself here? ur friend past away… no need to put your pic online to get noticed.
July 14th, 2008 at 9:50 am
TO THE MODERATOR OF THIS GROUP:
It is highly requested by the friends and family of Homaira Rahman to please please remove all these pics from your website. I understand it has created major traffic and a “buzz” for your business but there is no need to see pictures, videos or nonsense from ignorant, uneducated cruel people about a girl who died in such a terrible way.
To afg420 above, if you had a brain, you would know that these girls were not the ones who posted these pictures online in order to advertise themselves. It was stolen from her memorial site on facebook. Not to say anything is wrong with sharing pictures, but when i see garbage low-lives like you out there, it really makes me think twice about every single thing in this world.
THERE ARE BIGGER PROBLEMS IN THIS WORLD PEOPLE. Get over it and stop being nosy fucks about someone who passed away. Do your namaz. And pray for her if you call yourself Muslim, don’t come online to bash her and her friends.
Nazia’s friend, i think i know who you are TRUST ME i will make your life a burning hell. Mark my word.
July 14th, 2008 at 3:49 pm
YOU GUYSSSSS need to grow up.
seriously i feel bad for ehsan amin.
homairajan must of done somthing disgusting to be killed this way. i mean ehsan amin really had some ghairat of doing this..soo bravo for him…and also i agree with WOW
you guys need to stop posting pics of homaira and her ugly kaychanee friends who advertise themselves.
you GIrls are sooooo lowwww omg its ridiculous..and for that ugly fat head tabasum..toobah khuda zadet bahuda..
July 14th, 2008 at 5:30 pm
Meenajan, sounds like tabasum must’ve stolen your boyfriend in the past? lol..seriously what do you guys have against that girl? She is BEAUTIFUL..i met her at a wedding and she was so sweet she got up and offerd my parents her seat..that tells me a lot about someone’s character..she has AFGHANYAT and character…something you and these other morons on this site lack.
July 14th, 2008 at 9:02 pm
I read everybody’s comments every chance I get,some are pretty nice,which makes me feel good that Afghans still have a little decency left,but oh boy some these comments are so sad i really cry when I read them like that fellow that trashed the Atash family,i don’t know anyone but this is not the time to fight your personal problems and even more sad bad mouthing a dead person,she is not here to defend herself so what if she dated a couple guys nobody has the right to talk anybody’s life,I don’t know the truth,okay she dated him but she didn’t want to date him anymore told him she doesn’t want to see him anymore who give him the right to kill her,to he is a man he’s a coward he didn’t know the word NO and NO means NO get it I’m fighting for woman’s right everywhere,I’m an Afghan & a muslim and proud of it i have kids of my own and I do not give right to anybody to hurt my child,if we’re real muslims,Islam doesn’t say if somebody say NO to you kill her or him you deal with your loss and take like a man not like a possesive maniac(either my way or no way,that’s sickness).As a mother my heart goes out to Rhman’s family they the precious thing their beautiful young daughter at this time of sorrow we should try heal their pain instead of trashing their angel.GROW UP YOU MEAN PERSON,GOD KNOWS WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO HIDE,YOU DON’T SEEM LIKE A NICE PERSON,DO YOU KNOW THAT TALKING BEHIND PEOPLE’S BACK IS FORBEDED IN ISLAM & IS A SIN,THANK FOR READING THIS,RIP ANGEL HOMAIRA
July 15th, 2008 at 9:10 am
Yeah in every chat forum, why is everyone talking so much shit about Tabasum?
What did she do?
July 15th, 2008 at 9:22 am
It is sad that it is coming out that this girl was running around.
July 15th, 2008 at 9:29 am
Who is Tabasum??????? Is dat the hazara one??
I personally don’t know her! So can’t say anything positive or negative!!!
July 15th, 2008 at 11:25 am
Tabasom is an Uzbak Kala Kata Girl. She is No.1 whore in VA. If you read this Tabasom I will tell your fucking Beghairat Brothers that you dating a fucking ugly Panjabi Paki Guy. Just wait and see.
July 15th, 2008 at 11:35 am
uh — who cares who dates who n’ what color OR what race…as long as they are happy!!!!! It’s just my thoughts!
July 15th, 2008 at 2:35 pm
It is very SAD to see this post by afg420 who ever the real person who wrote that. This article was about one of our sister life being taken away by a coward who couldnt get hint that she did not love him anymore. How could he call himself a man by taking a someones life from her, her family and friends. Anyways I dont wanna say anything more because this whats wrong with us Afghans we can never get along and this is why Afghanistan is where its at. I pray for Homaira may GOD open the doors to the heavens for you and your family and may GOD wash away your sins.
To jawaid
Do you really know this tabasum apparently you dont because if you ever sat with her for 5 mins you would know she is the most kindest, sweetest, and nicest girl in the world. How could you say something like that about someone. How would you feel if someone was writing stuff like that about your sister man. Like I said I have know Tabasum and her family since high school and she is nothing like what you guys are saying about her. Grow up guys she has lost her Best Friend in this tragic instead of helping her get through this you guys are bashing on stupid rumors i bet.
July 15th, 2008 at 2:55 pm
mase: I think you want getting laid by Tabasum that you say nice things about her or may be she already laiding you.
July 15th, 2008 at 4:20 pm
There are some people out there that need a lot of help,they are sick and need therapy, they’re unhappy& sad and can not see anybody else happy,I have giving up on them long time ago,they’re like flies ,want to dip in every ones soup,the best thing is to ignore them let them bark all day long until they’re tired of hearing them self and shut up,it’s so sad that we still call each other hazara,uzbak and all those names I feel sorry for you guys,again I’m telling you kids:GROW UP AND DON’T HURT PEOPLE BY BADMOUTHING THEM,I PRAY TO GOD TO SHOW YOU THE RIGHT WAY.
July 15th, 2008 at 7:49 pm
HEY MEENAJAAN!
I THINK THAT YOU ARE SICK! THIS MAN MURDERED THIS YOUNG WOMEN WHO HAD SO MUCH AHEAD OF HER. HE STABBED HER, AND SHE LAYED IN PAIN FOR HOURS AND DIED. SHE DID NOT DO ANYTHING TO DESERVE TO DIE THIS WAY. HE GOT JEALOUS OF HER RELATIONSHIP AND KILLED HER. SO IT IS YOU WHO NOT ONLY NEEDS TO GROW UP BUT WHY NOT GROW A BRAIN. I THINK YOU HAVE SUCH A PERVERTED MIND TO FEEL BAD FOR THAT BASTARD.
July 15th, 2008 at 7:51 pm
ONE MORE THING. SHE IS DEAD AND YOU INSULT HER AND HER FRIENDS. WOW. WELL BITCH ALL I CAN SAY IS THERE IS KARMA.
July 15th, 2008 at 8:11 pm
WOW.. now i know why afghanistan is in such bad shape……
July 15th, 2008 at 8:13 pm
People! afg420, jawed, nazia’s friend, moosh all of the m are the SAME PERSON. He/she is just getting a kick out of this so if i were you people STOP commenting on this forum.
This website should be ashamed for allowing this kind of trash and slander about the dead and innocent. I know your administrators are enjoying the traffic it has created, but just like this idiot and others, you will be paying dearly for it in hell.
July 16th, 2008 at 6:29 am
I’M NOT COMMENTING OR MAKING STORIES ABOUT ANYONE… NONE OF MY BUSINESS!!!!! I SAID I COPIED N’ PASTE THE ARTICAL FROM ANOTHER SITE TO SEE IT’S TRUE… i’m asking about Samira Atish NOTTTT homaira!!!!
Morans!!!!
July 16th, 2008 at 7:58 am
I am sadened by these comments, it has brought me to tears. This young woman lost her life IN THE MOST HOSTILE AND HORRIFIC WAY, instead of all of us reuniting and learning something from this tragic and unfortunate experience we are trashing ourselves on this website. May GOD THE MERCIFUL AND GREAT FORGIVE YOU ALL.
RIP HOMAIRA JAN MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOUR SOUL AND GIVE YOUR FAMILY SABIR.
July 16th, 2008 at 12:41 pm
My Dear beautiful Angel, Homy!
I miss you so much, i miss running into you in Starbucks, I miss running into you in Bebe, i miss litsening to you about your weekly planned outfits, i miss seeing you at every khatem and memani …i lose hours of sleep thinking about how some jerk could possibly harm an angel like you, i lose hours of sleep thinking what you went through and only if i could’v been there to save you, i lose hours of sleep crying and thinking what i can do to bring you back, but then i realized that you are too good for this nasty world, and God only takes the good ones, you have accomplished enough on this nasty and cruel earth that God wanted you and you know it. God works in mysterious ways.
you will always be missed my angel, you may not be with us physically, but i always feel your presence and spirit.
You will be honored in every single day of my life.
Rest in peace my beautiful Angel, rest in peace!
July 16th, 2008 at 2:20 pm
JAWID.. you are a typical afghan loser guy. You are such a freakin fob man. Get out of this page and go to one befitting someone like you: like a taliban page or a mullah page.
July 17th, 2008 at 9:07 am
Why dont you guys jus pray for the poor girl.. forget about what she did or did not do.. it doesnt matter anymore.. all that matters is that she’s dead and she needs people to pray for her!!!
July 17th, 2008 at 1:19 pm
May God bless her soul and give her family solitude.
SOme of the comments regarding the deceased are truely asinine.Why should we be the judge?Can’t we leave it to Allah (swt).
As much as i am shocked to see an afghan slaughtering another, i am honestly shocked to see our fellow afghan sisters dressing provocatively which neither Islam nor our culture promotes.
Nevertheless, only Allah (swt) can judge us so i will say no more.
R.I.P Homaira Rahman
July 17th, 2008 at 6:30 pm
so what exactly is she wearing that is so provocative? i dont see her chest and nor do i see her asss? so what exactly are u talking about…? if you are that concerned about islam, then islam also says STOP TALKING BEHIND A DEAD PERSON!
July 17th, 2008 at 6:56 pm
First and far most, i would like to clarify a few things:
A. Homaira graduated from a prestige unversity (GMU) with a BA, and she made more than $100 thousand a year. On the other hand, Ehsan Amin, AKA, AJmal, worked at a local afg resturant, then later on he got a job at some local dealership. He barely made $40 thousand a year, Homaira’s purse only cost $2000, and as many of you may know, she never wore the same outfit again, how in the world did she use him with his poor salary? unlesss he had another part time job at some local whore-house that we are not aware of! Matter of fact, he was using her, she was a well-educated beautiful, popular, stylish, and on top of all that, she was well known in the community, she had alot of connections, and Ehsan (ajmal) was using her to get all the legal rights in America since he was illegal and a criminal who has previously killed someone in the neatherlands!.
B. Most of you said that she went clubbing that particular night and was later on found with a mini skirt, really? so if you are that damn sure, then you must ‘v seen her, but hey asshole what were you doing at the club? oops, i forgot that you are an afghan and you happen to have a penis, gee that gives you special previliges, damn you must be special, you are so cool clubbing on a thursday night, asshole!!!
C. many of you said, she drank, partied, and so fort, whats sad, is that no one mentiond her wonderful contributions to the society, what about her accomplishments, she was supporting an orphan kid in afghanistan , what about that huh? she dedicated so much of her time to the afghan community, helping the poor, putting event together. wow, homy you were just too good for this nasty world!
D. Many of you said, she dressed like a slut? hey hey assholes, atleast she did it in the open, she wasnt like one of these typical afghan whores, who wear hijabs, and once they leave their homes, woaaa what a slut vile…they change in the bus or university bathrooms, and just so you know, Homy dressed classy, not slutty, there is a difference between the two, but then again, i am talking to a bunch of FOBS and oppressed people, how would you know.
E. For the religious extremists and radicals, if you really hate the western culture and life-style, then hey assholes, what are you doing here, you are living in the west, enjoying the luxury and yet you hate the west, HYPORCRITES, go back to Pakistant!!!
F. most of you said, she dated guys, why not? she had every single right to do so, she wasnt a 16 years old. she was a 25 years old who had a degreee and was an established woman, whats wrong with talking to a guy? this is not afghanistan, you dont just get married to people that you ur oppressed parents set you up to, you talk to the guy and get to know him, Homy did the same thing, however, she realized that he didnt have the potential of being a good husband, so she wanted to stop talking to him, however her life was taken away, way to go afghans!!!!!!
July 17th, 2008 at 7:58 pm
although i don’t know you Mozhgan jaan,i loved the you explained every thing,i have daughters of my own which i’m allowing them to date as long as i’m aware of it,we live in America and yet we want to live in stone age that doesn’t happen,i have a lot of respect for our culture but not all of it specially taking away women right and give all the power to some stupid uneducated men to do whatever thy want to and call themselves afghan men that’s very very sad.
July 17th, 2008 at 9:33 pm
Dear sister, I read your post and I understood it fully. But most of these posts come from http://afghanbuzz.com/diary/blog/2008/07/16/shame-shame
Which is probably from Tabasum since her father owns Trivison. The link was monitored by site’s administrator and IP address was traced to Trivison.
My question to you is who do you think writes these nasty posts? For your information I know it for a fact that she was not making $100,000 or over. No recruiter makes that much money. Please state the facts and do not exaggerate. Just to be fair, blaming only one of them Homaira or Ehsan is wrong period. They are both guilty and unfortunately one is dead and the other is in jail.
July 17th, 2008 at 10:06 pm
To NAZIA’S FRIEND….i have a question..yes i heard that samira atash was married to ali…but what was ali’s last name? where does he lives?
July 17th, 2008 at 10:08 pm
morons!!!!!!
July 18th, 2008 at 7:02 am
Dear Justice,
i never said she made $100 thousand a year as a recruiter..she had other multiple jobs where she was making pretty decent money, my point is not to discuss how much money she made or didnt, we all know she was well off, she was not using Ehsan for financial purposes, and my dear freind, please tell me how Homaira was wrong? lets say she was wrong,lets say she did him really wrong, but that does not give him the right to kill her in a barbaric mannar.
p.s. I highly doubt all of that garbage was traced to Trivision, but if IP address was being monitored, then i hold little to no respect for Trivision!!!
July 18th, 2008 at 9:34 am
Will first and foremost i wanted to say rip Homaira jaan may Allah bless your soul - Now what i wanted to say is it truly does not matter what she did or didnt do the importance of all this is that she was brutally murdered and he did not have the right to take her life - God brought her into this world and God would’ve taken her out but unfortunately this Ehsan guy aka Ajmal took it upon himself to play God - Its unfortunate how some or should i say most of the ppl in this forum have come here to trash a deceased person and have the audacity to back up their reasonings with things like “she went clubbing, drinking, dated guys” and the worst one yet is “she deserved it” are u freakin serious??? No one deserves to die a brutal & horrific death like she did and to sit there and back up this Ehsan guy you must be mentally unstable - The fact that this guy murdered someone else in Holland is pure fact that he was freakin insane - Now i’m not from VA and i know most ppl on here are from there from the looks of not only trashing Homaira jaan but other members of the Afghan community in VA but i truely must say “wow” you are some of the most ignorant & uneducated members of our society and NO wonder our country is the way it is - you would think 30 yrs have gone by and you would see afghans united in this horrible time and give sympathy but yet you are worse than the afghans living in afghanistan who are living in the stone ages as we speak - i dont understand why ppl trash the west - it has given you shelter, food, safety, education and an overall better living but yet you sit there and say how you would never raise your kids “westernized” i dont get it? why are you here? you know im from the bay area and i know alot of you afghans from VA talk alot of “shit” about us over here because of the way we dress, the cars we drive, you talk about our girls and boys but one thing is for sure “we, in the bay area, would never ever talk trash about a deceased person and put blame on them and air out her/his dirty laundry” when it comes to it we get united and we are there for one another in the time of need and we sympathize - the moral of my story is pray for her and her family and stop talking smack about someone who is not here to defend herself and for Gods sake “grow up” and get an education so you can better this world for your kids otherwise “GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE”……
July 18th, 2008 at 10:18 am
Mozhgan jan, with all respect you are a little confuse my dear sister. You mentioned about Homaira’s income. I agree with justice, she never made $100k in a year, she was not a recruiter. Even if she was, that won’t be her income. Beside, if Ajmal was working locally, she was too, not Internationally, was she???? If she had her life established, if she was very westernized, why she was living in Afghan way with her parents, under their roof and support? The reason nobody saw her with the same cloths because she was returning them all the time and replace them with new one. Come on, we all know how the system works here in the US. So people would think that she never wear one cloths twice. Lets not fool ourselves here and be realistic.
Mozhgan jan you are judgement is very unfair. You should look at all the facts that are available now OR wait till the facts are to come out at the court and we all will hear it. I feel bad for Homaira and specially for her father who is a wonderful man and couldn’t handle his daughter and gave up. If you think she had the right to date guys, have boyfriends, stay out all night till morning to get killed, you are so very wrong about this. You really need to study the culture, our people, our holly book, get smart, not only book smart the school/colleg but you need to study life as well.
Also I do know that Ajmal never intended to harm Homaira, she was the one who didn’t want to leave him alone, she is responsible for her own death and Allah knows what went wrong between these two. Bringing families in the middle, cloths, salary, beauty, money, style, fashion, being used, helping only ONE orphanage, cost of her cloths are all excuses, and we should not be proud of these kind of materials. These should not be issues. I can tell from your words that you are very much following Homaira’s foot step, your picture is in every picture with according to you “Hommy”, and I pray for Allah to direct you to the right way and keep you safe.
My dear sister, next time please try not to fool anybody, because that will make you look fool, specially you are using the words that you suppose not to use toward your own Afghans, sorry. I will not call my Afghans FOB (Fresh Off the Boat) because you were one of the FOB’s once and I was one too.
I strongly believe in my heart that Allah is very fair and the justice will be on the side of who is innocent.
I know your next message will be all cursing me and calling me names but it is ok, I will ask Allah to forgive you.
May Allah Bless all of us. Ameen
July 18th, 2008 at 10:44 am
MY GOODNESS!!!! you guys will never learn “who cares” she died - GET OVER IT - who cares about all these materialistic, heresay, nonsense arguements you ppl are trying to make on her behalf - everytime you speak ill of her she you make her “nawrom” leave the poor girl alone she did nothing to you or your family - have some respect!!!! you ppl are all so freakin ignorant that im ashamed to call myself afghan - its utterly disgusting - SHAME ON ALL OF YOU - God forbid that anything like this would to ever happen to one of your family members - TOOBA BAKASHANE
July 18th, 2008 at 12:39 pm
Dear well-wisher!
my next messege will never resort to profanity, NEVER, You and i can go on and on and discuss her life-style, but i rest my case, i chose not to, thre is really no point in arguing anymore, she is gone, lets pray for her.
RIP Homy!
July 19th, 2008 at 6:48 pm
I have been to this blog twice and what I am reading is shocking and unacceptable. I knew Homaira for over 10 years. I was not close friends with her at all, but everytime she saw me, she went out of her way to say hello and be nice. She was like that with everyone, young and old. Whatever she did, however she chose to lead her life, she did not deserve to die so tragically. NO ONE DESERVES TO DIE THE WAY SHE DID. Even if she stabbed him first, he had no right to stab her multiple times, no matter what.
Brothers and sisters, please put yourself in her shoes, you all have sisters, mother, and daughters. Would you want them to go through so much pain and suffering as Homaira did? And how would you feel about soo many people making things up and talking trash behind their backs even when they are dead? Please, we have to come together and stop this nonesense.
Well Wisher, for your information, not all Afghans buy clothes and return them. So please dont make judgements on a dead person.
May Allah give us Afghans some dignity and respect.
RIP Homaira jan.
July 19th, 2008 at 8:40 pm
Well Wisher,
I totally agree with you.
July 19th, 2008 at 8:43 pm
Parween,
You sound really proud of what you are letting your daughters do out in the open. Women’s right doesn’t revolve around that. Wow. Then where is the aseeyat and ghariat of a mother and father?
July 20th, 2008 at 8:35 am
mamma;my daughters have rules and regulation they’re not going around from boy to boy i don’t that you guys know the meaning of word ghairat,i have a lot more ghairat then you do,i want my kids to know that they have parent that they love them and they there whenever they need them in any situation no matter what,they don’t have hide anything from us unlike a lot of afghan girls,they dress one way as soon they leave they change to something else that is complatley against their parent wishes and i know that for a fact i’m not making this up,i’m proud of my girls,if you know them you would be too,all i said i don’t want my kids to lei to me and do things behind my back and in hiding do horrible things that’s not so bad to honest with yourself and your family is it?to you if ghairat means that not to know anything about your kids or know but close your eyes and say i didn’t see anything or my child never does anything wrong,listen this is life you have to make mistake in order to learn and grow up,so i don’t want that kind of ghairat to fool myself and everybody around me ,i love my kids and proud of them they are born and raised in america but respect and follow a lot good part of afghani culture,please expaine the word ghairat to me because i have different perspective of that word then probably you do and one more thing don’t you ever judge people that you don’t know GOT IT:
July 21st, 2008 at 11:38 am
i am soo sad to call myself afghan…you ppl make me sick….its with utter sadness i write, that majority of afghans are still pathically ignorant and sorry excuse for humans…. you ppl will never change..
July 21st, 2008 at 2:19 pm
Parween -
How old are your daughters? I want to find a girl for myself
Homaira - we love you and rest in peace for ever !
July 21st, 2008 at 2:26 pm
I can’t tell which one is more worse on Rahman family, their daughter’s death or the bs behind her that people are making.
A true Muslim is one who does not gossip or hurt anyone in anyway. If any one of you consider yourself a muslim, you would not be creating rumors about anyone’s daughter, whether Homaira or Tabasum. Being a Muslim is more than dressing in hijab, it is about helping those in need and having an understanding of people’s pain.
Unfortunately, Homaira’s death has become topic of entertainment for afghan community. It is disgusting! Creating this forum is disgusting.
July 21st, 2008 at 8:13 pm
May God bless her and give comfort to her family and friends
July 22nd, 2008 at 5:21 pm
This message is For MEENAJAN.khaaaaaar e saaaaaaaaag. U FUKIN LIL WHORE…HOW DARE U SAY….THATS GOOD WAT EHSAN AMIN DID TO HOMAIRA GAK. u FUKIN BITCH…I DARE U TO STEP UP TO MA FUKIN FACE..IN CALIFORNIA..I WILL SHOW U DA ASS WHIPPING U’VE NEVER SEEN IN UR LIFE..U SUCKAAAA! BITCH IF U BOUT SUMTIN..THEN I DARE U TO REPLY TO ME…AND I WILL DEFINITELY TAKE THE NEXT PLANE TO VIRGINIA TO JUST WHOOOOOP UR ASS..U FUCKIN SLUTTTTT
July 22nd, 2008 at 5:26 pm
OH THIS ONE IS FOR NAZIA’S FRIEND.! WHO EVER THE FUCK U IZ…LIL..GURL,IF I CATCH U I PROMISE TO EVERYTHING I LOVE…AMA FUCKKKKKK U UP SO BADDDDD…! HAHA..U WILL SEE,YA LIL HOES FROM THE EAST COAST AINT BOUT SHITT…..IF U BOUT SUMTIN..THEN U WONT RUN UR TRASHY MOUTHS BOUT SUM GURL..THAT JUST DIED,U WILL BE WOMAN ENOUGHT TO GIVE ME UR FUCKIN NUMBER RIGHT HERE…AND I WILL WE WILL END THIS CONVERSATION ON THE PHONE…AND IN PERSON…! SO LEME C WAT YA HOES BOUT FROM THE EAST COAST….LOL…AITE MY NIGGAAAAAZ
July 22nd, 2008 at 6:21 pm
MEENAJAN: Bitchhh.step up one time! and show me wat u about…sluttt.! if u dont..then ur the cowardest afghan gurl i have ever seen…and ur full of talk!! so leme know wasssuuppp
July 22nd, 2008 at 8:39 pm
wat is wrong people, why is everyone so mad, get a life and pray that nothing as such happen to anyone of u or ur loved ones, and for those who use inapproperiate language u r no better thn the person u r replaying to. life is short live it up and stop the rumors about people, IT IS A SIN!, DAMN it when are you guyz gonna learn, here most of u would blame our elders for gossiping and being close minded, wat the hell is this ????? all of u out there who thinks they are all this and that, hear it out loud! you are all uneducated, low class cheap people who came to US and lost their identity, values and morals. I don’t know any of you and i don’t live in US but it makes me sad to read this, i came across this page and i was shocked to see how our young afghan ppl are. such a shame.
July 22nd, 2008 at 8:41 pm
God bless the girl and give her family patience to get thro this hard time.
July 23rd, 2008 at 8:36 am
wow so much hate for ntohing, I think we need to get to the bottom of this incident which is whatever decision you make in life it sure comes back to hurt you, who homira was what she did is her business and that got her killed so lets learn from that, and to Mozghan I dont think GMU is a presitiges university, and I don’t think having a 2000 makes yu any smart or beautiful person, it actuallly show how dumb you are that you go buy designer stuff which has a little logo or a name of certain company on it and pay an arm and leg for it just to make urself feel good..the way I see Homaira’s picture I think she was extermely suffring from lack of self confidence, it looks like she had a nose job as well, the fact that she was so awre of what she wore and what she carry proves that she had lack of self confident or respect for herself
July 23rd, 2008 at 10:22 am
WOW.IAM JUST SO SHOCKED TO SEE THIS PAGE. NOW I DON’T LIVE IN THE U.S. BUT WHEN I HEARD ABOUT THIS POOR GIL’S DEATH I CRIED, BECAUSE I REALIZED HOW SHORT LIFE IS AND, YET AFGHANS NEVER LEARN. INSTEAD OF WASTING UR ENERGY SWERAAING @ EACHOTHER AND THREATNING EACH OTHER, U SHOULD ALL ASK ALLAH TO FORGIVE U. U SHOULD ALL PRAY FOR HOMAIRA, BECAUSE THIS IS THE TIME SHE NEEDS HER FREINDS’ TO BE THERE FOR HER.I LOST MY MOM AS S CHILD AND IAM STILL NOT OVER IT, SO I CAN’T EVEN IMAGINE WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO LOSE A CHILD.I WISH AND PRAY THAT KHUDAWAND GIVES HER PARENTS A LOT OF(SABER)I HONESTLY THINK U ALL NEED TO WAKE UP TO REALITY,AND REALIZE THAT DEATH IS FOR EVERY 1,NO ONE LIVES FOEVER.JUST LIKE AMIN HAD NO RIGHT TO KILL HOMAIRA, U GUYS HAVE NOOO RIGHT TO JUDGE ANYONE,WETHER THAT’S HOMAIRA OR AMIN.PLZ GET A GRIP OF URSELEVES,STOP BEING IGNORANT.NO MATTER WHAT NO ONE CAN CHANGE THE FACT THAT HOMAIRA IS DEAD AND AMIN IS SPENDING THE REST OF HIS LIFE IN JAIL.
R.I.P HOMAIRA JAN…
July 23rd, 2008 at 1:46 pm
A MOTHER Says:
July 23rd, 2008 at 1:44 pm
I’m an Afghan mother,met Homaira jaan when she was very young,she’s related to me by marriage,know her parent nicest people that I’ve met,my heart goes out for them nobody has to go through this,no one has the right to take someone’s life,I pray for her soul and her family,and pray that this never happen to anyone and I have to say this I’m so proud of her she left so many good memories behind,she was a lucky girl,heard and read a lot of wonderful things about her,proud to be related to her.RIP HOMAIRA JAAN
July 23rd, 2008 at 3:33 pm
This is in response to POST 39 for (WOW).
Dear WOW: The answer to your question, she was married to Tamir Ali, actually ali is the lastname. but fortunately the guy dump that hoe and he got married to nice muslim girl, Samira Atash is just a afghan whore who lost her afghani value in the middle and give it up to a spanish guy. tuf lanat-e khuda to samira atash. If you get a chance get the june edition 1996 from gmu and see it for yourself what she did.
July 23rd, 2008 at 8:03 pm
HE who is without sin, cast the first stone….Nazia’s friend.. YOUR TRASH…..typical afghan…i don’t know samira n i don’t know u…. bt YOU need to get a life… go vent somewhere else….this is NOT the place…if it was, i’d have sooooooooo much more to say to you….
July 24th, 2008 at 9:55 am
WOW!!… People People People…Now this is what you really call, “Holy Shit”
You know, I have heard here and there that Afghans have changed, from CA to VA, but never in my imagination would I see the same people who, today, respect death and conduct funerals in the same respect that a Prophet did almost 1500 years ago, to be the same people who would dare to toy and anger each other upon someone’s daughter getting beaten to the point where their heart stops beating and blood ceases to flow through their body EVER again.
Are we Afghans just so angry with life? Maybe we have just become completely numb after so many years of war and death. Well, heres a reminder in case anyone has forgotten the reality of death in this modern lifetime.
Maybe you have only had the luxory of seeing death on the Discovery Channel or National Geographic. But, Have you ever heard or seen the cry of an animal getting eaten alive in real life? Well, what about the most chilling scream that your mother or maybe another women gave? Like when giving birth to their child? Regardless, its a sight and sound that no matter how criminally dark a heart/mind may be, it just cannot stand it.
Now think about this, when your mother or sister gives birth, how much happiness did it bring to the whole family and how innocent was the love that was there every time you or someone held that baby? And then to watch it grow and talk, and then to share every moment, with years of memories and pictures of birthday parties, happy moments where this child’s parents were given so much happiness and they praised God every day for the awesome miracle of making a third human from only two? Have you thought about that?
If you havent thought about it, then maybe you should ask yourself this, “what would I do if my parents found my brother or sister, or one of my parents, dead in a street, covered indignantly in blood?” And I had only those pictures and memories to mimic the feeling of having that baby right there back in our arms crying, laughing and bringing the happiness once again?
So, Are you paying attention more closely NOW since you are the one who has to endure and witness your mother’s high pitched squeal and movement that resembles an animal getting tortured alive and slowly going insane in thought, right before you own two eyes? And have you not thought about your father’s weakness, that if he was already not already weakened from his efforts of saving the same child and famiy from years of journeying through war and sweating blood and hiddin tears to only see their happiness and one day maybe his grandchildren that he planned to laugh and play with? Now just look at his eyes, he cant cry and hes just as confused at the silence that surrounds him.
So what do you do? Well now, maybe right now you sit atop an imaginary throne and you’re thinking that you’ll never have to play the role of the mother, father, brother or family member that you just imagined. Maybe you will, maybe you wont, but one thing is for sure, somebody else is going through it in real life, so maybe you should be a little bit more sensitive.
Let us strive to rise up and realize that every one of us will die with demons for which only God can judge us. You WILL, one day, bury a mother, father, son or daughter snd trust me, they HAVE hidden so many stories of sin from you that they will always be an Angel to you. So now, let us be different and better.
Please please please, let us share in the moment of Homaira’s death. Not as strangers, or cousins or enemies, but as people who emotionally understand and sympathize with her family and friens. Instead of being as heartless as we have been so far. Do not concern and involve yourself with the rumors and the type of pictures of her that were put up. Its the nature of evil that wants us to do so.
People are doing their best for everyone, even if it is not to just one person’s standards. But just do not let darkness fall upon this matter any more than it already has. If you can do that much, then maybe God will have mercy upon us that we, ourselves, never have to endure what Homaira, Ehsan, and both their families are enduring and suffering as we speak. Our lives can always get better without evil pulling us down.
July 24th, 2008 at 11:00 am
WOW!!… People People People…Now this is what you really call, “Holy Shit”
You know, I have heard here and there that Afghans have changed, from CA to VA, but never in my imagination would I see the same people who, today, respect death and conduct funerals in the same respect that a Prophet did almost 1500 years ago, to be the same people who would dare to toy and anger each other upon someone’s daughter getting beaten to the point where their heart stops beating and blood ceases to flow through their body EVER again.
Are we Afghans just so angry with life? Maybe we have just become completely numb after so many years of war and death. Well, heres a reminder in case anyone has forgotten the reality of death in this modern lifetime.
Maybe you’ve only had the luxory of seeing death on the Discovery Channel or National Geographic. But, Have you ever heard or seen the cry of an animal getting eaten alive in real life? No? Well, what about the most chilling scream that you’ve ever heard? Like the one your mother or maybe another women gave when giving birth to their child? Regardless, its a sight and sound that no matter how criminally dark a heart or mind may be, it just cannot stand it.
Now think about this, when your mother, wife or sister gives birth, how much happiness did/will it bring to the whole family and how innocent was the love that was there every time you or someone holds that baby? And then to watch it grow, talk, laugh and then to share every moment, with years of memories and pictures of birthday parties, happy moments where this child’s parents were given so much happiness and they praised God every day for the awesome miracle of making a third human from only two? Have you thought about that lifetime that exists? Well, one does not exist anymore.
If you havent thought about it, then maybe you should ask yourself this, “what would I do if ME or my parents found my brother or sister, or one of my parents, dead in a street, covered helplessly and indignantly in blood? And now, I have only those pictures and memories to mimic the feeling of having that baby right there back in our arms crying, laughing, breathing and bringing the happiness once again…what do I do, and what do I feel?”
So, Are you paying attention more closely NOW, since you are the one who has to endure and witness your mother’s high pitched squeal and movement that resembles an animal getting tortured alive and slowly going insane in her thought, right before your own two eyes? And have you not thought about your father’s weakness, that, if he was already not already weakened from efforts of saving the same child and family from years of journeying through war, sweat and blood and hiddin tears to just see their happiness, and one day maybe his grandchildren that he was planning to laugh and play with? Now just look at his eyes, he cant cry and hes too old to do anything; and hes just as confused at the silence that surrounds him.
So what do you do? Well now, maybe right now you sit atop an imaginary throne, and you’re thinking that you’ll never have to play the role of the mother, father, brother or family member that you just imagined. Maybe you will, maybe you wont, but one thing is for sure, somebody else is going through it in real life, so maybe you should be a little bit more sensitive.
Let us strive to rise up and realize that every one of us will die with demons for which only God can judge us. You WILL, one day, bury a mother, father, son or daughter and trust me, they HAVE hidden so many stories of sin from you that they will always seem like an Angel to you. So now, let us progress to be different and better.
Please please please, just sympathize in the moment of Homaira’s death. Do not strive to be an animal that does not fear God. Be sensitive…Not as strangers, or cousins or enemies, but as people who emotionally understand her family and friends. Instead of being as heartless as we have been so far. Do not concern and involve yourself with the rumors and the type of pictures of her that were put up, or anything negative. Its the nature of evil that wants us to do so.
People are doing their best for everyone, even if it is not to just one person’s standards. You will see that when a loved one dies, the blitz your mind goes through just tries to get by. But, just do not let darkness fall upon this matter any more than it already has. If you can do that much, then maybe God will have mercy upon us that we, ourselves, never have to endure what Homaira, Ehsan, and both their families are enduring and suffering as we speak. Our lives can always get better without evil pulling us down.
July 25th, 2008 at 11:33 am
Finally someone speaks the truth about Samira Atash. I know it’s not the time or place for it but better late than never. She is such a pretender of all things…..success, virtue, value, class, and anything that relates to integrity!
July 27th, 2008 at 9:49 am
you peoples who are talking so much crap are unbelievable.. Allah thoba… so what if anyone chooses to be free, date other people, or be a hoe?? WHO ARE YOU TO QUESTION AND JUDGE??? ISTAKFURLAASIM.. WHAT YOU ARE TRYING TO COMPETE WITH ALLAH SWT?? THOBA THOBA… INSTEAD OF TALKING CRAP ABOUT OTHERS, GO ASK FOR FORGIVENESS.. GO PRAY THAT YOU DONT END UP DEAD LIKE THAT.. AND THAT PEOPLE DONT TALK LIKE THAT ABOUT U WHEN U R DEAD.. YOU PEOPLE HAVE NO LIFE.. THE PERSON WHO TALKS SO MUCH CRAP LIKE THAT, SHOULD SIT AND THINK TWICE ABOUT HOW ARE THEY GOING TO ANSWER TO ALLAH SWT?? YOU PEOPLE MAKE ME SICK.. MAYSHARMUM KHI AFGHAN MA ITHO SAHRD DIL WA BETARBYA AST.. THOBA KADUM.. HAVE FEAR FROM ALLAH SWT AND APOLIGIZE FOR WHAT YOU HAVE SAID .. ASK FOR FORGIVENESS.. FROM ALLAH SWT FROM YOUR FRIENDS, FAMILY, AND EVEN ENEMIES.. U MIGHT NOT BE ALIVE TOMORROW.. IF U DIE WITH SOMEONE WHO HASNT FORGIVEN YOU FOR WHATEVER REASON, YOU WILL BURN IN HELL.. ALLAH SWT WANTS US MUSLIMS TO STICK TOGETHER NOT HATE EACHOTHER.. WHY HAS ALLAH SWT TOLD US TO PRAY 5 TIMES A DAY? TO FAST? TO CELEBRATE EID? BECAUSE HE WANTS MUSLIMS TO BE UNITED.. TO DUE GOOD DEEDS TOGETHER.. GROW UP YOU PEOPLE.. LIFE IS SHORT.. MAKE SOMETHING OF URSELF AND PROTECT ISLAM AND URSELF WITH UR FELLOW BROTHERS AND SISTERS.. KHUDA TAWFIQ BETA HAMA BANDAHAI KUDA.. ISHALLAH WE ALL WILL BE BETTER MUSLIMS NOT JUST BETTER HUMANS.. R.I.P. HOMAIRA JAAN… U WILL BE MISSED.. MAY ALLAH SWT FORGIVE U FOR ALL OF UR SINS AND SEND U TO JANNAT INSHALLAH ALONG WITH US ALL..
July 29th, 2008 at 7:43 pm
I remember when I awoke
And saw myself
Laying there
And wondered
Why?
Then…
Remembered the
Argument
The fight..
The outcome
Of my life..
I remembered my
Mother
How she fixed my hair
With hairbands
That had red, round balls on them,
Sometimes green squares..
How much I loved her
And
My father
His sweet afghanee accent..
How much he loved Chai
That I brought to him..
How I miss you..
My father
And how sorry
I am…
How
That morning
I waited till you
Found out.
I was there
When they told
You
Mom and dad..
I was there,
I know you felt me
How I miss you both.
My fellow Afghans
I forgive you
For not understanding
My life
I did not
Understand it
Then,
I understand so much
Now
I am so happy
So loved
So treasured
I hope
You can all
Learn to treasure
Yourselves
As I’ve come
To be
Treasured
Here
In a vast
Garden of Yellow
Lillies,
My favorite color,
With so many new friends
And my father’s and mother’s
family..
How I miss them…
July 30th, 2008 at 1:21 am
im disgusted by some of your responses. this girl is dead..gone…deceased…She woke up crying coming into this world from the womb and she went out crying and dying internally and mentally. And all you guys can do is condemn her because of her pictures with her friends being a young woman?? you expect her to wear a f*ckin burka??? What the hell is wrong with you people? how dare you blast anyones personal business when she is not even here to defend herself. and to blast other peoples business…how dare you??? who do you think you are?? im sure your hands arent completely clean and you will be the one to face God. Let this poor girl rest in peace. you all should be ashamed of yourself and this is why the afghan community will never unite. you sit here bickering your horrible disgusting taunting attacks towards each other and for what? jealousy?…spite?…thinking you are better than other people? having an idealist view on life and condemning those who do not live like you??? YOU are the ones who will harshly face God when the time comes. only GOD can judge, not you simple minded idiotic people. dont point fingers, you know your hands are especially not clean. Im sad for you people. Im completely appalled. you are tearing your community and people apart and its people like you who should take a look in the mirror and see the disgusting people you are being.
July 30th, 2008 at 1:23 am
RIP HOMAIRA you deserved life more than most these ridiculous people here.
god put his working hands to rest to take only the best.
July 30th, 2008 at 1:27 am
Being jealous of Samira is apparent. if you were not you wouldnt speak with such anguish, hate, and spite. Nevertheless, you certainly wouldnt waste energy and time to sit here and write about her if you were not jealous. You afghan women are so insecure and most dont know who they are or whom they strive to become that you just sit here with all this hate. Keep your head up Samira Atash. They just strive to be you and they know they never will be.
July 30th, 2008 at 10:25 pm
May she rest in peace!
This is a devastating incident! Everyone just needs to pray for her && her family! People need to quit speaking badly of her especially since she is dead. She cannot defend herself. People please just pray!!!!
July 30th, 2008 at 10:35 pm
hello, this is ur mama talking.All u bad afghan girls that party n drink n go out all nite with ur boyfriends need to learn a big lesson from thus n a big slap in the face.Wake up bitches this is reality.A big wake up call.Dont feel sorry, she braught it up uon her self.May god help her now.
July 30th, 2008 at 10:39 pm
this is to ur mama!
girl you are so right! that girl did bring this upon herself! all these afghan girls are lost in america. they do horrible things behind their parents’ back, but the funny thing is that they can hide it from the whole world but not from God!
oh u think ur pretty, oh this guy asked me out! no honey he just wants to get into ur pants than murder ur ass!
July 30th, 2008 at 10:41 pm
aight
this is lil wayne talkin uhhhhhhh lick my lollipop
aight lil mama may God forgive ya
u was a pretty shotaayyy actually u were pretty talll but foget that
uhh lick my lollipop
July 30th, 2008 at 10:48 pm
smell the coffee,wake up to the real world.get rid of ur myspace n ur face books.u dont have to show people ur cool u go out n drink because this is how ur gonna end up.remember ur culture n were u came from.we r not gonna be in this world forever, we all have to stand n front of god one day n answer to him.u girls walk around half naked n wear bikins, please what do u think u deserve.dont feel sorry she did it to herself.ya she was a fahion queen ya fashion queen in the grave.
July 30th, 2008 at 10:50 pm
dirty reality e nanet
how could u that was my sisterrr ur talkin about! assshole!
July 30th, 2008 at 10:56 pm
to sahar jaan
‘good to whatever ehsan amin did’
who do u think u r?
bashing on ppl here on this website. u r a retard & a slut
end of story
August 1st, 2008 at 11:17 am
To all the so-called Muslims who keep preaching on here. It is 100 percent against Islam to talk bad about dead people. so please lets end this thread here.
Asalamalikum
—NO MORE MESSAGES PLEASE—–
RIP Homaira.
August 7th, 2008 at 4:08 pm
Wow after reading all this shit sooooo GLAD I don’t live in Virginia! Damn you people are messed up, get together & form a strong Afghan Community… Is this the image you want to display to millions of Afghans around the world? Shame on all of you! What a disgrace to our people, culture, and religon! Unite people its the only way!!!!
August 7th, 2008 at 4:10 pm
R.I.P Homira jan & my condolences to your family & friends.
August 10th, 2008 at 12:18 am
it is a truly sad made for hollywood movie story. my condolences to the Rahman family and to all those that knew her.
having said that, i cannot believe how typically Afghan this forum went. You people have judged and in effect put yourself above her. “Ghaibat” does not make what you say right. it only lessons her punishment. I myself judged homaira, and now i see how wrong it has been.
let he/she who is WITHOUT SIN cast the first stone. im not christian but the pacifist were on to something.