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[915] Virginity and Peer Pressure

Hi : I am currently in my grade 12 and living happily with a great family in Sacramento, California. I have been raised here in the west but my family still imposes strong traditional values on us. I have always lived on the edge. Not sure if I should embrace the Afghan culture which I do not know about or the western one in which I grew up. Most of my female are friends are planning on their graduation and how they would want to loose their virginity on the prom night. I myself never had a boy friend but lots of crushes. I am starting to feel like an adult and sometimes I think that life is short and why not enjoy it.
My friends are peer pressuring me that I should loose my virginity on the prom night and I am not sure how/why and to whom. To them its just a Dare Game. Lets do it kindda thing. At times I just wanna do it and get fucked and yet, I look at my family and how much they trust me. Would I break their trust. Is it my life or their life?. Life is so short and I should I enjoy myself or not. Again would it even be fun getting fucked by someone u don't love but have a mere crush? I am contemplating the issue and ....hum your opinon on it would be appreciated.

Posted 2 months ago

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  • Dewana Shodie??????????? OFCOURSE DON'T DO IT !!! HOW CAN YOU EVEN THINK OF IT YOU STUPID GIRL !!!
    Posted 2 months ago
  • Do what ur heart tells u to do.. think about .. if u do lose ur virginity.. would that be the only think ur losing?.. u've lived ur entire life being a virgin.. why give it up for someone u don't care about.. don't listen to ur friends.. because after prom and graduation .. u probably won't even see them that much..
    Posted 2 months ago
  • it is very interesting to read the kind of problems that face our youth in Afghanistan and those living in the west. one has the problem of feeding the problem and other one is not sure to get fucked or not... hummmmm... very interesting.
    Posted 2 months ago
  • think u shouldnt just do it coz ur freinds r telling u 2... make ur own decisions in life and in my opinoon u should keep ur virginity for some special u will love...... DONT LISTEN TO THESE OTHER IDIOTS WHO ONLY POST COMMENT ACCORDING TO THIER TRADITIONAL VALUES..... MAKE UR OWN DECISIONS............!!!!
    Posted 2 months ago
  • Dont embrace the Afghan culture or the Western one,
    Embrace Islam.
    Posted 2 months ago
  • Who cares do it for fun ! can we do it??
    Posted 2 months ago
  • You need to find yourself good friends who accept you for who you are than what you can and should be.


    Posted 2 months ago
  • OMG how can you even think about lossing it just because your friends are doing it, i understant that you were raised here but you are Still a muslim and you have to think about your parents too. YOU BE CRAZy if you do it just because. IF you MUST then do it with someone you love cuz its something you'll remember for the rest of your life. but as a muslim Girl I'm Telling YOU DO NOT DO IT NOW PLEASE.
    Posted 2 months ago
  • Hey your really that stupid to do whatever we tell you ?I mean come on i bet you have a big head on your sholders and maybe little brain so use it sweetheart.Are you going to end up with that guy?If not then you know afg guys will not accept you becouse they respect the inconcent once and you will bring your family down if you get devoresed you know why...
    So are you ready to live knowing you will never be able to be with your family becaous they will kick u out?

    Posted 2 months ago
  • ur freinds are not good freinds
    y woold u follow this wite trash culture?
    as if they are a good example!
    Posted 2 months ago
  • Dont do it dont lisen to ur freinds they ar white and have no culture!!
    Posted 2 months ago
  • I THINK THAT UR A STRIGHT UP BITCH U WHORE U PUT UR FUCKEN BUSINESS OUT EHRE THE WHOLE WORLD CAN SEE U AND WHAT IF THEY SEE UR MOM ONE DAY IN THE STREE AND THEY IMBARSS HER THAT WILL BE A FUCKEN SHAME FOR U AND I BET UR FRIIEND AARENT EVEN TELLING U THAT UR BITCH ASS JST WANT TO DO IT BUT GUESS WHAT I DONT THINK ANYBADY WOULD WANT OT DO IT WITH UR HAIR PASHTOON ASS I KNOW UR BITCH ASS VERY WELL AND IF I EVER SEE U AGAIN I NTHE DTREETS U R GETTING UR ASS WOPED U SLUTTY ASS BITCH
    Posted 2 months ago
  • ^^WTF, lol calm down.
    Posted 2 months ago
  • do it..do it...do it...do it...do it...do it !!!
    Posted 2 months ago
  • would punch the dudes if they touch me!!
    Posted 2 months ago

  • hahahahahahhahaha
    what a whore!!

    Posted 2 months ago
  • no she ain't a whore cuz she did not do it... u can't call one a whore if they are contemplating on being one ... its a fine line. fameedie ?..lol
    Posted 2 months ago
  • ^^na, name fameedie. lol
    Even thinking about doing it makes u a whore. lol
    Posted 2 months ago
  • nay...thinking doesnt make u a whore..it only makes u a slut...only.
    Posted 2 months ago
  • bottom line is i want to fuck you instead, so let me know where at and prom i'll take your virginity at a discount
    Posted 2 months ago
  • who ever you are i dont think your an afghan because you are very desperate. and that is a shame for you. you really need to talk to your parents. get married. you are very DESPERATE AND THAT IS WRONG!! maybe your a good girl but thinking like this will make people think that you are a desperate bitch.
    Posted 2 months ago
  • I WILL COME TO USA SOON AND I WILL FUCK YOU DONT WORRY
    Posted 2 months ago
  • remember....the honor of a family is on the shoulders of the girl(s), so if you at all care for you family, you wont do it, white people are just as bad as afghan ppl, rumors spread fast, and once a rumor catches up to an afghan person, it is like a deadly infection that you can't control, even people in the east coast will know your not a virgin! hell, in the villages of Afghanistan their gonna talk bout you. your gonna have the rest of your life to have sex with your husband. Why follow the crowd and do what they do? Be your own person, trust me, in 10 years, all these girls who are gonna lose their virginities on prom night are gonna regret it, so avoid one less regret in your life and don't do it.
    Posted 2 months ago
  • This is a very unbalanced world....
    one is under the peer pressure of striving to survive by any means possible and the other is under the peer pressure of uncertainty of whether to be f**ked or not. Girl, Alas.

    -Hamz
    Posted 2 months ago
  • oh dukhtar aga mekhayi virgin bashi khay biya tahna yak kun bete koss nate
    hahahhahhhhhhhhhhh
    Posted 2 months ago
  • ohhh what a slut if you cant get a guy go do it with a random i know you only put this up so people can give there number or email to you fcukin slut grow up your an afghan you kharrrr. foisha`

    fcuk your a slut`

    sharem ko kamakii`
    Posted 2 months ago
  • okay whoever you are, its not about your friends playing a game with your life. what if u end up pregnant or get a STD? then what? how are you gonna answer your parents? better yet, look in the mirror? im NOT disgracing you...im giving you thoughts on how to think of the situation and then you can decide on your own. i hope you make the right choice.
    Posted 2 months ago
  • Listen... as one of these guys said... culture is not important... its ISLAM that is important... U ARE MUSLIM OK... remember whatever you do Allah is watching you.
    How can you even think about loosin it to someone you dont even know. Trust me those are bad friends, they will show u wrong paths of life for the rest of ur life... LEAVE THEM RITE NOW. Be proud of what you are and just keep urself clean and safe for the one man that u will love and be with. Fun can be done in different ways.... Why would u even associate fun and short life thing with virginity....YOU CAN GO HAVE A BLAST YET BE A VIRGIN..... You will always be proud of this quality of yours... dont let anyone point fingers at u
    KEEP URSELF SAFE..
    bye
    Posted 2 months ago
  • IF YOU DO IT = You will regret it all your life, you will hate your self and its going to be something thats going to bother you, even if you dont tell anyone, you will not like yourself after wards. Not to mention you will loose your self esteem.

    IF YOU DONT DO IT = at first sure your friends will make fun of you for not doing it, but then when you meet you MR.right , you will be really glad you saved yourself and actually if you tell MR. right about your story and how you save yourself for him , your relationship and love will be pure and strong between you too and you both will be happy w/each other.
    Posted 2 months ago
  • Life is short? lol your just 18 right now.. loose it and stay single lol
    Posted 2 months ago
  • Family background is of course one of the main issues in choosing a mate, because that's where the girl's/boy's childhood training and diciplining is rooted from. Tarbiya-e-khanawadagi shart ast. Not only educational background, but also their akhlaaq and their behavior with the community. What you detect in the family is what you would expect in the girl/boy. But hey, if the girl is well educated, then it is an assurance.

    One thing in marrige should not be neglected, and that is the religion part, because you need to bring up your children good believers, but if that is not given important by the mother later who has the direct supervision of the children, then the whole responsibility falls on the dady's shoulder, so one better ponder over that ahead of time.
    Posted 1 month ago
  • The answer to this dilema is obvious, ignorance and going astray, giving up identity, self integrity, and integrity of his/her natinality. One that has sense of faithfulness to his family background, to his religion, to his nation, and culture, wouldn't do such thing
    Posted 1 month ago
  • WWW.AFGHANUNITED.COM
    It is your wisdom to choose one who cares about religion, who has interest in Islam, because you will not regret it later in life when your children's life is involved, you will be responsible to bring your kids God believers. One might say, I myself am not so religious, but you don't hate religion right? Even though you might say, you know it's hard for me to pray, so why do I care about my husband or wife, but you see you are not against it, but if at least if you and your husband or wife are both pro religion, at least your children will grow with good ideology if you teach them that there is no God but God, and Muhammad is His Messenger, this is our way of life, you have done great portion of your responsibility.

    3. I know that we all experience the bad memory of injustice and misery back home right? That's not religion's fault, what we witnessed was not the work of true Islam, every cruelties and terrors you saw Islam is the opposite of that. Peace, kindness, fairness, brotherhood, social justice, passion equal Islam. The opposite of these come from bribed ones, the enemies inlfluinced ones, the fooled by filthy mullas ones, the ones who misinterpret the meaning of Quran and Islam, the ones who listen to the mullas giving fatwa that killing of such and such is allowed and by shedding their blood one goes to heaven, BS, that is the mentality of illiterate, mullas' knowledge is so limited, the truth is, the killer's place is right in the hell. Because Quran says, whoever kills a person is like he has killed all human beings, and whosoever saves a life is like he has saved the lives of all human beings. Therefore, my dear, teach your kids the right way, you were breastfed by a Muslima mother and it is up to you to follow her footsteps, she delivered a Muslim child to her community.
    Posted 1 month ago
  • in the same situation as you. Ive never had a bf before, not that i havent been asked out, beleive me i have, its just that i think abt my family and i dont want to embarass them. I dont ever want to lose my virginity, maybe have a bf finally but not my virginity. It'll always be on my mind and also i will feel very dirty, so hun dont do it.
    Posted 1 month ago
  • DONT DO ITT
    UR FREINDSS ARE WHITE AND GAY THEY DONT CARE ABOUT THIS STUFF
    AND UR AFGHANI HUSBAND WILL LEAVE U THE MIN HE FINDS OUT UR NOT A VIRGIN CUZZ ITS A BIG DEAL FOR AFGHANSS SO PLZ DONT BE STUPIDD DONT DO IT!
    Posted 2 weeks ago

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