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Sent to a friend I have a black boyfriend and I have been with him for a couple of years now. We have been talking about getting married soon. He is not a thug, but a mature, successful and ambitious guy. He is not Muslim and I am not practicing it either - but I am an Afghan. My family has met him and likes him too, they don't mind me marrying him. The problem is all the other Afghans. They don’t know about it, and let’s face it – they wouldn’t like it. I don’t know how to tell them or if I should tell them at all. What do you think about this? Are there other Afghans with a black girlfriend or boyfriend, or am I the only one? I would love to hear from you all.Posted 3 months ago
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- hi : I think you do what makes you happy. It is your life and doesnt matter if a guy is white or black or yellow...if he is a honest, humble, caring, loving partner than you should be with him. A lot of afghan guys are terrible husbands. From beating/ abusing / cursing husbands to cheating ones... plenty of those. Hence be with him. The hell with Afghans and their narrow minded personalities !!! .. u go Girl !!! I won't mind if my husband is chinese as long as i am in love and he is nice to me.
Posted 3 months ago - Love has no color, race or religion. Most Afghans will never understand or accept that. The younger, more open minded and educated generation might be able to change that. Afghans who have lived in western countries for a long time, and who have socialized with other "races" might marry non Afghans. We should relalize that Afghans are not superior to other ethnicities. We are all equal and should respect everyone.
Maybe I am asking for too much? After all - we Afghans can't even get along or respect our on ethnic grops, how can I
expect that we will respect non Afghans?
Posted 3 months ago - Many Afghan guys date other girls for many years, and when it's time to marry, they bring a virgin from Afg. Everybody knows this, but nobody blames the guys. But God forbid if the girls dated other guys :) I think you should marry him. If he makes you happy, respects you and makes you feel like a real woman - then go for it.
Posted 3 months ago - yes i know some one who has had black boyfrie
Posted 3 months ago - So, who's got a bigger one ... afghans or niggers... ?
Posted 3 months ago - NIGGERS... afghans have peanuts
Posted 3 months ago - Based on widely accepted statistics from the US department of statistics, there is a 50 % chance of marriage failure in the general American population. If we accept this statistic, there is a 50 % or more chance that this marriage will fail. If it doesn't, more power to you. Even if it does succeed, there will be many problems in the future. for example, a product of double minority child will be least accepted in society. That child will neither be accepted as an Afghan nor as black American. As a result, there will be many poor sociological ramifications for your progeny, such as social belonging. So, you must consider your decision very carefully, as it will have serious consequences both for you and your children. But then again, we live in American, and we are part of America and intermarriages are inevitable, and there is a good chance they will find their niche, however small it may be.
With regard to some one-sided posters, it is important to point out that Afghan society is not unique in its deficiencies. What happens in Afghan society also happens in other communities. If you think by marrying a non-Afghan you will be spared some of societies ills, you are dead wrong. A certain percentage of men from every culture, nationality, ethnicity, religion will abuse women. That is a fact. According to the Centers for Disease Control, domestic violence is a serious, preventable public health problem affecting more than 32 million Americans, or more than 10% of the U.S. population. Percent of women surveyed (national surveys) who were ever physically assaulted by an intimate partner: Barbados (30%), Canada (29%), Egypt (34%), New Zealand (35%), Switzerland (21%), United States (22%). Based on this statistic, there is uniformity in men abusing women. Unfortunately, based on some surveys, in certain regions of USA, violence agaisnt women by their "loved" one is as high as 50-70%. Moreoever, In the United States, 20 percent of all violent crime experienced by women are cases of intimate partner violence.
According to WHO (World Health Organization), "For ever-partnered women, the range of lifetime prevalence of physical or sexual violence, or both, by an intimate partner was 15% to 71%, with estimates in most sites ranging from 30% to 60%."
Posted 3 months ago - NO WAY LEAVE THE thug alone
Posted 3 months ago - He is not a thug!!
Posted 3 months ago - how can an afghan gal marry a black... disgusting
Posted 3 months ago - What is so disgusting about it? Would it be better if it was a White American?
Posted 2 months ago - you go girll.....i already dated a black guy..nothing wrong with that...at the end..we are all humans..YOU GOOO GIIIIRL!!
fuck afghans haters...and like someone said .young afghan generation are open minded..so whoo caresss marry who you love sweetheart
Posted 2 months ago - For the loosers that are demeaing Afghans and Afghanistan, WHAT THE HECK ARE YOU DOING IN OUR WEBPAGE. We don't want your filthy kind around. You are the garbage that we dumped. You stink! Now move on! There are plenty of black, white, Mexican, and so forth pages the you can visit. You come here and make us filthy by merely associating with us. Let our kids who serf these webpages learn something beneficial, like education. Make us proud by shocking us with your intellectual advances and not animal instincts. Sleeping or dating around is not a sign of progression, on the contrary it's a regression. You are going back to your animal instinct. Progress is in KNOWLEDGE, not on who is the bigger whore.
Posted 2 months ago - Relax!
I did not demean Afghans. This is a confession page, not a "let's learn about Islam and Afghan culture" page! I was born Afghan - but raised in the West. You are one of the narrow minded Afghans that we were discussing. You want to keep Afghans and our culture back in the stone age. Even Arab countries (like UAE) have progressed yet still not lost their religion. You don't want to call us Afghans unless we have the same old values as our grandparents - but lets face it, it's not going to work in this century. You can't hold us back from wanting to explore new things. If an Afghan wants to marry a non Afghan - he or she should be allowed to without you calling them filthy. If anyone is to be called a loser it must be you. You mentality is like a talib. You including all the other "Talib thinkers" are the garbage we are trying to get rid of from Afghanistan. I feel sorry for you. This world is not a place for narrowminded people like you.
Posted 2 months ago - YOO why would u care about other ppl...if ur happy wid him then cool...fuk the rest of the world u knoww loll...
anywayyy go ahead n marry him ;)
Posted 2 months ago - *clap clap*
your totally right..im hundred pourcent down with you !!!
finaly afghans that thinks like me
(the second comment before me)
Posted 2 months ago - FUCK YOU BITCH
Posted 2 months ago - YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF , YOU FUCKING A BALCK MAN AND WANT US TO SAY WHAT A GOOD JOB YOU DOING , SHAME ON YOUR FAMILY THAT ALLOW YOU TO DO THIS , WHAT IS WRONG WITH AFGHAN GUYS , LET TEM FUCK YOU IF YOUR NOT HAPPY THEN GO WITH BLACK MAN
Posted 2 months ago - ISGUSTING
Posted 2 months ago - ISGUSTING
Posted 2 months ago - ISGUSTING
Posted 2 months ago - You all are fucking idiots.You forgot where are you from and evenmore you stupid individuals do not respected your family and roots.But I let you know that not every afghan is like you and there still are people who value the honor and human moral.you are animals whois preoccupied with sex.Lahnat ba sari shoma kasafatha.
For you faisha i wish that you with your niger have an accident and hopefuly die.
Posted 1 month ago - girl..
please dont mind all the idiots comenting bad words,.. to give u some support .. my bf is afghan but we are both from different cities and we dont speak the same afghan language.. so its the same wid u .. so even if u would date an afghan u could have had difficulties and differences.. but if i can give u an advice.. dont tell people who dont have to do anything wid u.. u just give them another story to nag about.. as long ur family is happy and u can visit ur family.. who cares whether the community knows and accepts it..
take care and i would love to see those beatifull babies of urs.. later .. goodluck
Posted 2 weeks ago - seriously, i kno someone whoz dated black guys like continuiously, but the thing is, think of children, they be excluded out from everything, no joke, just think about itm leaving ur blak boyfriend is a good idea, everything that happens,happens for a reaso
Posted 1 week ago - I dont see this as a problem. I see you not practicing our religion as a problem. Always be the strong one in the relationship. Like Jermain Jackson. His wife is afghan and he has not converted to ISLAM.
Posted 1 week ago - Afghans are a superior race. Why would you want to mix blood lines with another race?
Posted 1 week ago - What makes you say that Afghans are a superior race? Who told you that? I thought all humans were equal. No one is superior to anyone, be it black, white, Afghan etc. We shouldn't think that we are better than anybody. If you cut people open, you will see that we all made of the same flesh and blood.
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