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[2790] Im an arab girl who love an afghan guy but he dont know that :(

Hii everyone!!

Im a arab girl, who is 17 years old!! I had meet an afghan boy! he goes at my school, and i love him! He change whole my life first time I saw him, and he smail!! He dont know that I love him, cuz i hadnot told him.... it is know by 9 month ago that i have love him and love him know!!

The problems is that he like every girls and like too telling with all girls. I had head that he will kiss some ugly girl, cuz he think they was beautii, but they are noot. I will noot say that im beautiier but Many peolpe think that. HE love girls with long, black haar!! I have black nd long haar, but im wearing hijab, and he had not seen my haar. I had not tell wiht him in 1½ month now and sometime I cry about him. He is soo beauti and wonderful, he is just 19 yeaars and i really love him. I think aout he all the time agien and agien. I dont know what im gonna to do.

Posted 8 months ago

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  • hm, U ARE CRAZY!

    AFGHAN GUYZ ARE CRAZY, INSANE ASSHOLES.. BELIEVE ME- IM A AFGHAN GIRL N I REFUSE TO GIVE MY HEART AWAY TO ANY AFGHAN MALE.. OR ANY MALE FOR THAT MATTER.

    UR ONLI 17, UR HORMONES ARE KICKING IN.. Y WUD U FALL IN LOVE WITH A GUY WHO IS KNOWN AS BEING A ASS??? A PLAYER??

    THE ONLI THING U CAN DO IS GET OVER IT OR GO WITH THE FLOW UNTIL HE EVAPORATES..LOOOL

    WHEN UR ABT 21 UL LOOK BACK N LAUGH ABOUT THIS
    Posted 8 months ago
  • .well best thing to do is to meet him somewhere alone and talk to him about it or email him explaining everything if it works great , if not you will have to move on.
    Posted 8 months ago
  • May be if he knows that you love him he will change and stop looking at other girls, But important thing is to tell him and make sure he knows that you love him. That way he can love you too

    goodluck
    Posted 8 months ago
  • Person 1: Thx a lot of the answer!! I know that u mean, but now I cant do anything cuz I love him. And I now that he is bad, but i want to change him.

    Thx Thx my afghan sister

    Person 2: Thx for ur answer sweety, I know that I sould tell him, and I want too try...

    Thx Thx a looot Sweety

    Person 3: Thx also too you for the answer, You have rigth it is important that he get knoww that.

    Thx Thx a loot friend

    Too all Of u: Thx a looot I think that u all is afghan and the most sweet peolpe at the world. I like u soo much and thx tht u had think abou me and the problem..... Thx
    Posted 8 months ago
  • Afghan guys are cheap players move onto to a nice Muslim Arab guy sweety
    Posted 8 months ago
  • lol
    Posted 8 months ago
  • u want to sex him tight?
    Posted 8 months ago
  • Please dont think bad thing about me, im a good girl and dont thnik about sex with him....

    Its love, the most beautiful think at the world Allah had given us!! I love him cuz he is soo sweet and I had not tell him cuz I dont want too be a bad girl at his eyes.... I hope u unerstand

    And Thx a loot for the answers peolpe!! :)
    Posted 8 months ago
  • I know what you mean...your trying to play "hard to get" towards him AKA you don't want him to think your easy going as the other girls are that he flirts around with. Honey trust me, he knows you exist and when he gets to know what kind of a girl you are...that's if you are a pure girl in the soul and heart...then he will appreciate you and look up to as a very high standard girl. So what you want to do is never tell him that you like him b/c if you do then he will of coarse tell all his buddies and be like "yea that girl right there is begg'n me to do things with her", come on all guys lie like that whether afghan or not. Don't make it seem that you are easily manipulative, or that you come under ppls "tahseer" too easily. and for that he will value you, and who knows you are only 17 and one day you will look back and say "omg! i can't believe i was about to tell that stupid idiot i liked back in high school that i was soooo into him" and then you'll be glad that you never told him. Come on everyone has gone through the same thing, including myself. But sometimes its better to keep certain things to yourself. So what if you tell him, then what, then what can you do after that? exactly NOTHING. Why? B/c Honey we are Afghan, LOL!!! Hope i helped Kand ;)
    Posted 8 months ago
  • U must be stupid to fall for afghan ,afghan & Arab never work u two r deffrent people culturaly lang ,then there is the issue of family go find urself nice Somalin or yamani Arab .if ur just after a bite of ding dong that's deffrent otherwise donot wast ur time ,by the way good girls are setting at home doing thier homework kosi lawda!
    Posted 8 months ago
  • PEOLPE.... IM THE GIRL WHO WRIT THE TEST!!

    I feel that im more nervos and dont know what i have too doo now....

    most i tell him or not.... sholud I keep my love to the end of my ife or what

    im serosly in doubt now :S

    I cry about it ;(
    Posted 8 months ago
  • y this sight is stupid can someone answer this fro me what do you guys think of girls with braces? [seem e dadana] lol sounds funnier in fars
    Posted 8 months ago
  • seem'e dandanhaa stupid... not dadana lmaaooo

    dadan is something else hahah
    Posted 8 months ago
  • I think if he didnt notice you yet than he never will. He is only interested in one thing... he is 19 -what do you expect? Afghan men are savages in alot of areas lool.

    Hope I helped. diwahna lol
    Posted 8 months ago
  • FOR THE GIRL WHO WROTE THIS I CAN TRY TO HELP EMAIL ME .. timetravel42@yahoo.com ....

    peace
    godbles
    Posted 8 months ago
  • y do afghan gals hate afghan guys?
    Posted 8 months ago
  • Do he really do that...???
    Posted 8 months ago
  • fuck guys become a lesb
    Posted 8 months ago
  • girl want to phone sex is in pakistan just call her and start with bt the phone will be pick up by a boy and tell him tht i am your sister classmate give he mob to her i want to talk with her then he will give ok mob 03349205655, 03449293461
    Posted 7 months ago
  • this girl is stupid just go and have sex someone else you 'll feel better sex HEHEHEHEH
    Posted 7 months ago
  • tuba the last few comments are so dumb....so many uneducated people in this world....when they say education is the key...they really mean it..
    Posted 7 months ago
  • Trust me Afghan girls are not angels either....You smile and they think you are attracted to them...lol and worst of all is if you are not with your friends in school, and they spot you, you better read the last verses of the holly Quran because, the come and literally throw themselves at you. So for those girls who are calling Afghan Guys names I suggest you look deep into your own history and the messes you have made then come and call Afghan Guys names because YOU ARE NO ANGELS EITHER........
    Posted 7 months ago
  • 17 yr old in love, i think YOUR HORMONES ARE JUST KICKING IN THATS ALL just forget about sex and focus on school little girl

    Posted 7 months ago
  • ll never marry an afghan guy and you shouldnt make this mistake either :)
    Posted 7 months ago
  • please people... love has noot a age its a sweet thing in the life allah had given us!!

    I love him, and no one will let me hate him!!
    And i think about my homework to much!!

    But thx for ur comments :)
    Posted 7 months ago
  • ^^^ why dont you suck my dick as well while you think of your homework and love him??? i wouldnt mind you loving someone else as long as you keep giving me heads and i keep shagging you

    its only about sucking my dick nothing more seriously, okay maybe i would shag you but still come on, suck my dick bitch!!!
    Posted 7 months ago
  • come on love me , forget about HIM
    Posted 7 months ago
  • okokok...iam arab guy..fell in love wit this afghan girl...we said we love eachother and everything and i gave her my heart and trusted her
    she startd giving me all this drama i felt like im in a hindi movie...she begged me for sex and i respected her so much and her family..so i didnt do this to her..i dnt wna disgrace her...iam a virgin
    and she is too...now she left me and she went to marry her cousin...good luck to her..being mean to me...but she said if u love me and want me to be happy leave me alone...after her dad said yes for us to be engaged...wow...i hate afghans forever now...
    Posted 7 months ago
  • It is soo sad for u arab guy!! It makes me crying !!
    Posted 7 months ago
  • Afghans are good. they are loyal. anyone with intention to make love. email me. nadiraslami@aol.co
    Posted 7 months ago
  • the mail is noot right!!
    Posted 7 months ago
  • ;m in love with with a arabic boy..and I a latina so his so differrent from me.But we understand each other..I LUV HIM SO MUCH.
    Posted 7 months ago
  • lolllllllllllllllll

    Posted 6 months ago
  • You are right afghan boys are just palyers n looking to fuck up some girls n thats it. girl take my advice n never mind about him at all n find a nice guy from ur country or somewhere esle but dont dont just think about to be with an afghan guy. belive me im an afghan girl n i know about the afghan boys. they are jerk
    Posted 6 months ago
  • you know what i just stumbled onto this post by chance & i can totally relate. Except im a pakistani born here in the UK & id like to think im in love with this Afghan guy who goes to my school. He told me he loves me.. we aint official & i dont plan to coz i just got that REALLY BAD feeling inside. I dont trust him for shit. Even though i do love him, i respect myself to much to loose. I dont think ill ever tell him that i do love/like him or whatever; but for now im just distancing myself :) i can still see myself married to him in like 10 years ://
    Posted 6 months ago
  • All I want to say is that I wish the best for all of you. May God/Allah bless all of you!
    Posted 6 months ago
  • PROB WIV AFG GIRLS R DEY ALWAYS MOAN ABOT AFG BOYS,,,ND END OF DA DAY DEY GT MARRY ONE,,,SO SHUT FUCK UP SNITCHES!!!
    Posted 5 months ago
  • To all people who made thier comments here about afghans or any nationality you all know the subject got nothing to do with being afghan or Arab or any others it is about two people which none of them are repersenting thier nations here so it will be a very good idea to leave those things a side and think a bit wisely. Stop writing about natoins it is culture .which love dosent recognize that at all and in last to whom been dumped by thier Arab or afghan boy friends sorry for u all but it is thier problem not thier nations . DONT GIVE UR HEARTH to any one that can't hold it
    thanks
    Posted 5 months ago
  • girl... i am in same problem as u... i say go for it.. you only live once. and if he will make u happy, then be with him, but just wait till u r older. u r only 17. u neva know wt future will hold. just pray to allah for guidance and help... if it is meant to be, allah will help u with this. but seriously... do not worry bout it so much right now... u can talk to him as friend.. tell him hw u feel. see wht he sez and if he can prove he loves u enough... take things a step further. bt honey, i know its hard, but please..... life is not to dwell over a boy and feel unhappy like thi. u should be happy in life! just do not worry, keep positive and hope. if it does not work, MOVE ON. there r so many boys in the world. u will find someone better, who is not a cheat, who will love u better. becoz, sweety, u deserve the best. so just wait for now. try not to think bout it too much and just try and stay strong. i know hw fuckin hard it is, trust me. bt insha-allah, just pray and hope... stay relaxed XD and just try and stay happy!!!! ^^^^
    Posted 5 months ago
  • hope this helped.... a bit :
    Posted 5 months ago
  • Thx girl.... its rigth what u say.... thx thx thx :*
    Posted 5 months ago
  • No offence but girl u need to move on its life u fall i love blah blah i no how it goes but if u cant u have to tell him it dont matter were ur from india pakistan saudia arabia iraq qatar there all just imaginary wall that have been put up to divide us all in the end wer muslims thats what matters the most muslim unity i say go for it at least that way u can get some sort of perspective on ur relationship if he refuses its his loss honey not yours, youll have ur answer in the end and move on no matter how hard it may be i no ive been in love wid da same girl for like 7 yrs then when i got the nerve ta ask her out last year she said yes n den 3 months later she cheated on me and i ended things but that dont mean i dont love her coz i still do, coincidentally she was an arab n am a kashmiri all u have to believe is some1 out there loves u that some1 could be any1 some1 at ur school or some1 who may have just got a glimpse of u but dont give up
    Posted 5 months ago
  • AFGHAN GUYS ARE CHEAP, NADEEDA, INSECURE, LOSERS, DONT WASTE YOUR TIME GIRLS. TAKE IT FROM ME, I DATED ONE FOR 5 YEARS, HE PROMISED ME THE WORLD AND WE BROKE UP. THEY ARE THE BIGGEST BAIGAIRATS. GIRLS GET YOUR EDUCATION, GET YOUR CAREER GOING AND DO YOUR OWN THING.
    Posted 5 months ago
  • HII... im the girl, who writ that!! plz its a cute love its noot about sex... so dont think any thing bad about me and him... just because i fall in love, its cute love!! Thx for alle the comments and i still love him <3
    Posted 4 months ago
  • Dont date him! he is a player like most of the afghan boys! I am an afghan guy and I am a player. I've dated up2 three chicks at the same time haha but I dont go for afghan girls or muslim girls coz I am a really warm person and need to be loved. I live in Australia so I date aussie chicks and have fun with them! they're so easy haha they get drunk and decide to fuck OOOPPPPS soryy for the language so at the end of the day Dont tell him you love coz he is gonna break your heart. In fact! fuck him Y dont u date me? I am probz cuter than him and'i'll make you happy and smile haha. Lastly the afghan bitch who was talking shit about afghan boys here is a nutcase! most of Afghan girls arent perfect! they're players 2 haha.
    Posted 3 months ago
  • refer to me as afg 036 if you wanna respond to me

    im an afg guy and i know how mostof them think. Listen, you're gonna have trouble by going towards him easily, keep distant, and dont let him know ur emotions, ok? Now, if he starts getting interested with you, u do like i said, never stop being distant and always think before talking with him. Then if he falls in love with you, keep resisting, if he doesnt, than you gotta pass over him, even though it will be tough as hell ok? Never let your emotions control you. if u 2 end up together, u gotta make him feel like he still has to keep showing his love to you otherwise you will leave him, cause a guy will stop making efforts to show his love when he has the girl he loves. He shouldn't have to buy you expensive gifts to show his love, he has to be creative. Make him know that.

    PS: for afg girls bullshitting afg guys, know that we're not all like that, the guys you are talking about are only a fraction of all afg guys, the others are better, but i agree they are harder to find, just look for those who dont spend their time messing with girls, the good ones they are smarter than that.
    Posted 3 months ago
  • true comment, thx 4 sharing,
    Posted 3 months ago
  • hate afghans
    Posted 3 months ago
  • fg 036, u are soo sweet, im the girl who writ that!! All what u writ is right ;(

    I wanna forget, forget him and his sweet eyes, but i cant ;( help me plezzz
    Posted 3 months ago
  • Hi!
    I am an Italian man and I am 29.
    Please, believe me: The monst important thing is the person you love, deserves your love.
    He must deserve your love. And he must be serious,respecting you.
    If a guy like all girls, he will never change.
    It is like DNA. You look like serious girl and hopefully you will be serious for all your life.
    I am serious and I hopefully will be serious for all my ife.
    Still easy people are easy and they will be easy.
    Your pure heart is the mostprecious thing you have. Give it only to someone special.
    Pray God to help you to take the right choice.
    Write down on a piece of paper what you think you deserve from a man. If you deserve someone faithful, then forhet anyone that seems easy...
    I did the same when I was looking for my love...
    It has been hard at the beginning,but doing like that I am happily married,now. And i haven't suffered for love... when I saw some girl was kind of not serious I just decided to stop liking her...
    It is like this: You like someone <nd see only his qualities... but if you focus on his defects and bad attitudes...you don't like him anymore!
    God bless you and be happy!
    Please don't forget this:
    "In life don't do what you like, but simply choose to do the right thing to do". It is my guide when i am confused.
    Posted 3 months ago
  • hahaha some people writes here that they hate afghans :)

    wooow if u hate afghans so who are you ? not afghan?

    LOOL. zoretan meta ke ma bachay afghan can bang bang all girls !! haha bechera, BEREN GOM SHAWEN khoda chi feker kaden shoma dukhtaray afghan !!! loool BEREN KOS BETEN BARE ARABA ;)

    Afghan boys!!! u wish u had him like ur husband. BUT NO WAAAY dream On bitch !! we give our hearts to the one who loves us 100 % and helping us to be a good boy :) ;) theeen afghan boys is there forever for his wife.


    if u want to get ur love so fight with it.

    Posted 3 months ago
  • lol if you want to get ur love so fight with it hahaha get life loser...

    you dont even kno what your saying
    Posted 3 months ago
  • Gurl dont be silly, your way to young now, wait atleast 3 years. just like the italian guy said, make a list then decide. your just blinded by love dont make stupid decisions now. give it some time. few years later you will think back and laugh! May Allah help you.

    peace
    Posted 3 months ago
  • an afghan girl and i want to marry an arab guy.. not afghan.. Please no lol
    Posted 3 months ago
  • Listen forget all the comments that have been left, or at least the negative ones. What ur facing is a complicated situation and one that will require u to contemplate and prioritize what u want in life. Because listen the thing is that no matter how much advice anyone can give you be it they are Afghan boys or Afghan girls or Arabs or American or any other nationality, culture or religion, you have to make this decision for yourself and no one cares about you or wants the best for you as mush as your mother and father. Any step you want to make first you have to ask yourself whether by doing this will it bring shame and disgrace upon your family. And second thing is that every action has a consequence and that by doing so and talking to the boy you are and WILL be compromising your purity because from what it seems like you havent felt like that about another guy so you have still upheld yourself till now and thats a good thing. What I'm going to tell you next, read it with great understanding that any guy regardless of religion, race, creed, nationality thinks that the greatest gift of all is a wife that is clean from the heart and pure; that the husband is the first and last person to forget touch that girl but to just even have feeling for that girl and have it be reciprocated. So in doing so if you want to take my advice on it as a honest brother from Islam, do not even think about this Afghan guy at your school let alone approach and talk to him as some of the comments have suggested, thats not the best way to solve this. In addition and this may digress from what Im trying to say but dont post such topics online, dont you have any close friends or family members that can help out with such situations, cause as you can see people who dont even know you leave behind horrible comments thinking of you as (sorry for my language) slut and whore and judging your character. Listen to me, as some people here have commented that what ur going through is just a post-pubescent teen hormone thing, there is some truth to it. I know I am not in your shoes and might never understand how you feel but you have to ask yourself if that guy ended up as your husband, would live a happy and blissful life where he feels the same way about you, because if Im not mistaken thats what all girls want. And also to the Afghan girls and guys who are arguing with each other calling each other names using this poor girls plight as an excuse shame on you, cause you know in the end of the day whether Afghan or not, there are good boys who care for only one girl and there good girls who uphold their honor and virtue for only one guy. And also regarding, the comments by Afghan girls that all Afghan guys are pigs, come on as an Afghan guy myself who still cares about what becomes of us, I have witnessed myself some of the most morally decayed characters be Afghan girls and this breaks my heart and hurts me to say this. But thats neither here nor there about this poor girls problem, but just to finish because I can lecture you until the end of time, but its only gonna be you that can make the decision, the right decision for yourself. try to understand me, love makes you do irrational things and I cant make you understand everything but I can try to explain them to you so no matter what you have to think for your own best. Because if guys loves a girl, he will go to the end of life and back just for her let alone change for her. Trust me, to put it bluntly this guy is never going to change regardless of how hard you might want to think that he will. I am writing soooooooooo much because Im trying hard as hell that you understand that as an Afghan guy I know how he acts and how he will act even if he finds out that you love him. I am a 19 yr old Afghan guy and I can just as well have been doing all this that he is doing but I came at a point where I questioned myself whats important in my life. And ironically, it was an Arab girl that has shaped my character to be what it is right now as I love her to death and understand that theres more to life than partying and having tons of girls, and that special thing is the earnest love a girl that would stand faithfully by you for the rest of your life. So please please please I plead and hope that you make the right decision and take into serious consideration what I had to say. But as of right now I can do only one thing and that is hope and PRAY that you do whats best for you and thats not loving this guy anymore. I know this is hard to hear but may Allah subhanna wa tala bless you and show you the right way in all your problems.
    Posted 3 months ago
  • thxxxxxx you... its maked me crying.... i dont know what im gonna to say... now I just crying :'( but thxx

    (The girl who writt that)
    Posted 3 months ago
  • I have to say that most Afghan boys are insecure for most of their teen lives. If your still in High School, trust me when I say that he's going through hormones more than you are. I'm Afghan and I have an Afghan crush, I can tell he likes me, but customs forbid us from talking to one another a lot, since i see him at religious school. So don't try too hard and 'play the field' and thats how i got my Afghan crush to like me.
    Posted 2 months ago
  • okaaa thxxx for all the comments people... Im reallt in love its a big problm I have and plzz dont say and think bad about me...
    Posted 1 month ago
  • Not sure why people are hating on afghan guys, I’m Indian and have dated an afghan for about two years, we had our up and down mainly cause of the situation but otherwise he was great. Due to some cultural differences it will be a little challenging but soo worth it at the end :) At the end it didn’t work out due to the difficult situation but we are still great friends. Only thing I regret is as a Muslim Its wrong to date, finish school and then think about these things. If it’s meant to be then he will find his to you.




    Posted 4 days ago
  • dated an afg for 2 years.. and i loved him SOOO MUCH, and he loved me too, but in the end.. most afgs will not marry a non-afg girl, and most afg guys ive met always look at girls with hungry eyes.. its natural to look sometimes, but all the time is too much.. he went after a slut and left me, even though he promised me we'd marry and alsoo.. afg guys are VERY strict, and if you give them some rules, they don't like it and break them.. its how they grow up at home, it makes them think thats right. and last but not least, after a little while, they start to care less about your feelings.. this is just what happened to me, all the best to you!
    Posted 1 day ago

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